"Foundations"

There is a thing that family researchers can do free called 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks by Amy Johnson Crow.  It is something I have signed up for many times, but have never done it.  I hope to do some of these this year.  

The first prompt for 2021 is "Foundations".  My mind immediately went to the hymn - A Firm Foundation is our God (I may have the title of that song wrong) or The Church's One Foundation.  These are songs I remember singing with my grandmother at her church that we went to with her a few times a year.  She is my foundation. She was one of the most influential people in my life and my upbringing. I was always with her as much as I could and she really indulged me with being at her house and doing things when she, as a single widow, had plenty to do.  She is my conscious and my true north. 

I actually wrote this obituary for her when she died on 11 January 2007, almost 15 years ago. It seems like a few short years have gone by in many ways.  Here is the obituary and what I would call my Foundation. 

Lois Wiggins
Lois Ruth Wiggins was born to Frazier and Mary Metts Lloyd on August 18, 1919, in Security, Texas.

After her mother’s passing when she was three years old, she lived with her father and her mother’s relatives. She grew up surrounded by loving grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins who were like brothers to her.

She often visited her father’s relatives in Quitman, Winnesboro and Snyder, Texas. This family was also dear to her.

After marrying James Frank Wiggins of Splendora, she moved to Houston and lived in “Denver Harbor” where her three children, Ronnie, Mary Lee and Larry were born. In 1947, the family moved to 627 Barbers Hill Road in Highlands where she worked hard to build her home, maintain a farm and raise her family.

Lois grew up attending church with her father and family. One special memory of hers was going to “the singings” and “tent meetings” during the summer. Her family attended First Baptist Church, and Missionary Baptist Church in Highlands. She later moved her attendance to Northside Baptist Church. She was a faithful servant and taught children’s Sunday school and Bible School until a few years ago where she decided to continue her service as Sunday school attendance superintendent. She looked forward to meeting with a ladies Bible study on a weekly basis and enjoyed their friendship and fellowship. One constant in her life was the love of her church and serving God.

Lois was an honored employee of Bay Fair department store where she did alterations for over 20 years. She sewed for individuals and used her savings to travel the world.

She visited many exciting places including Europe, Scandinavia, Japan, Korea, Africa, Canada, United Kingdom and the Holy Land with her friends.

Lois was preceded in death by her parents, Mary Metts Lloyd, Frazier Lloyd, and husband Frank Wiggins. She is survived by her children and their spouses, Ronnie and Joann Wiggins, Mary Lee and Robert Simpson, and Larry and Linda Wiggins; grandchildren Karen and Marc Fair, Stephanie and Michael Fidgeon, Paula and Edward Hayden, David and Keri Simpson, Ruth and Scott Charlson, Rebecca and Robert McCann, Laura and Tom Richard, Mark and Jean Ann Wiggins, and Michael and Shanna Wiggins; great-grandchildren Jennifer, Faith, Edward III, Stephen Paul, Olivia, Abigail, Emily, Natalie, Colton, Logan, Hannah, Allison, Emma, Jared, and Madelyn with one other soon to come.  (I can now add Cameron, Meagan, and Ryan to this list of great grandchildren)

The family will receive friends from 10:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, January 13, 2007 at Northside Baptist Church, 317 Barbers Hill, Highlands, Texas 77562. Celebration Service will be held at 1:00 p.m., also at Northside Baptist Church. Graveside service will follow at 4:00 p.m. at County Line Cemetery in Willis, Texas. Arrangements are under the care of Sterling-White Funeral Home, 11011 Crosby-Lynchburg Rd., Highlands, Texas 77562. (281) 426-3555. Condolences may be made online at www.sterlngwhite.com

“Her children arise up, and call her blessed”

— Proverbs 31:28

Living History

My cousin, Karen Wiggins Fair, has always been someone I admired. I remember being a little kid and thinking her long hair was so cool and thought it was super that she could play the guitar. She was also the infamous girl who played on the boy's basketball team in school, intelligent and successful student, and after graduating from high school, she was accepted to West Point Military Academy.

My cousin's family moved a lot (to me anyway - I lived in 2 houses all my growing up years, and they were in different spots on the same property) and we saw each other on Christmas and summer holidays sometimes as well as major events. One such event was her graduation from West Point in 1985. Our whole family went - we even skipped school! That trip was a blast! (Even though my family of 5 made it in a two door Chevy Citation... with two brothers who were bigger than me.. that part was not so fun.) We were all so proud of her and amazed at her accomplishments. It was a surreal experience to say the least to see the field of graduates in uniform and all of the military leaders and soldiers. After the ceremony, all the graduates threw their hats and we have photos with us wearing some of them. My brother even brought one home. It is something I have never forgotten, and I am sure our entire family holds that memory in a treasured spot.

Karen graduated and was given her first assignment soon after. Her academic and career accomplishments continued for the next 25 years. She has been all over the world in countless dangerous situations and, even though she has some medical 'scars', she was protected and is now making plans for the next stage of her life. I know she could not have done all of these things without her family's support, Marc and Jennafer - you are truly unique. I know they are looking forward to having a more permanent home and being able to be with family and friends more often.

Sadly, we could not be at her retirement ceremony. It was thrilling to be with her when she earned her promotion to Colonel and I am so happy that we did get to share that with her. She was able to get me a program from her ceremony and sent some photos. The program details her career, which would take other people multiple life times to complete what she has done. And now, instead of kicking back and taking it easy, she is looking for the next job to continue to make a difference in the world. It's because of that drive and focus, doing for others and trying to make positive change, that Karen is someone that just seems to be living her life like someone you learn about in history books. Instead of being a spectator of life, she is living it to the fullest, pushing limits at every thing she does, and making positive changes for other people as she gives of her self.

My Wiggins History - Part 1

I got started researching my family 17 years ago when my cousin had been researching for a while and got me started. We have been to several family-historical sites and have met several distant relatives and other Wiggins researchers.

To begin,

My father is Larry Grant Wiggins. Grant is a family given name or Christian name that is in our family for 100+ years. In fact, my son, brother and my nephew have Grant as a middle name to continue the tradition. My father's parents were James Frank Wiggins and Lois Ruth Wiggins. He has an older brother, James Ronnie, and an older sister Mary Lee Wiggins Simpson. My dad was born in Houston, Tx in March 21,1944,and lived his first three years in East Houston's Denver Harbor. His family built their own home and lived in the same neighborhood as other family members. During that time, after WW II, the families moved to Houston to get better jobs. My grandmother worked part time at Sears in downtown Houston and the women in the neighborhood would watch the other's children. My grandfather worked for Parker Brothers shipping in the Houston ship channelas a night foreman.

When my father was three, my grandfather decided to try and get rich by raising Brahama cows and moved the family to Highlands, Tx on 627 Barbers Hill Rd. They bought a parcel of land, which they added to in later years, and bought a small house. They have record deeds that date to the Mexican land grants. Years later, they constructed a 4 bedroom 1 bathroom house that is still there today and has been passed down to my aunt Mary. My father grew up attending Crosby schools since the house was on the Crosby side of the dividing line between Crosby and Goose Creek ISD (Baytown). He was an excellent student and a star football player and tri-captain in high school. He married my mom, Linda Holy, who was a cheer leader in 1960-1962. Mom and Dad were Mr.& Mrs. CHS in 1962. They lived next door to his parents and later, when I was three, built a house at the back of the property.

My dad attended the University of Houston and graduated with an associate degree in 1966 and a bachelors' degree in 1967 electronic engineering. He has worked on several military programs with Space Craft, Inc. such as the F15 plane test equipment and many rocket/missle programs, owned his own company with three other workers specializing in computer based SCADA monitoring equipment for pipelines, and has recently retired with 28 years from Invensys (previous Foxboro Company) where he ended his career as a proposal specialist. Now, he and my mom spend time with my family and my two brother's families traveling, going to grand-kid's sports events, plays, and school programs.